Saturday, January 31, 2009

SI readers respond....THANKS A MILLION!!!!






This week Peter King mentioned Paul in his SI Monday Morning Quarterback column.
(click on page 5)
The response was overwhelming!!
What a tremendous lift it gave us!
This morning when I walked into Kessler....Paul was in his wheelchair surrounded by piles of letters....books....notes....e-mails....he was literally buried.
I cried...he cried...
The staff was amazed!!
It has been an emotionally tough week! It was/is so wonderful to read all of your letters.
I brought the stack home tonight so that I could sort through and send some e-mail responses.

What a bunch of warm-hearted softies....cards were chosen with care and meaning. I could just image all of you standing in the drug store...deciding on the perfect card.

"Cheer up! The doctor says that you'll be normal soon! Which proves there's a first time for everything!"

"I'm desperate...Nothing can replace the void your absence creates"

"OOOO! I HATE when I laugh and food comes out my nose...Happy Birthday to someone who's fun to be around".
Brad & Karen said..."I know it's not your birthday but every time I look at this card I laugh out loud and I thought you probably need a good laugh right now! It's followed with a ps "You've got a great friend in Peter King".

YES...he is a tremendous friend...he has made weekly treks out to the wilderness of the Jersey woods! Words fail me...the time and energy that Peter has shown can never be repaid!


It is hard to believe that so many people spent so much time and care to deliver heartfelt messages....Handmade cards with photos of family....art cards, Rothko, Degas, Monet...to remind us that we are still surrounded by beauty. Quotes from Winston Churchhill..."Never, never, never, never give up!!

Dom...thanks for taking the time to gather all of these messages and books and sending them to Kessler. Your finger must be sore from pressing the print button! (I'll pass your note onto Paul in the morning...)

There was also an offer from Rick to help with our insurance company....yes..yes...You'll be hearing from me soon.

ALSO a huge thanks to Arthur, the brother that Paul never had...the help and support you have given us goes beyond friendship!
The Zabar's roast beef was a godsend!

I also want to thank so many for thinking of me....it is such a boost to my morale. Thanks Ed for the copy of My Stroke of Insight...and for your kind words.

Claudio, an Italian reader in Singapore, who listed all of his Get Well Soon wishes for Paul including "The Flaming Redhead needs you. and "Dawn was beautiful this morning. I heard tomorrow it might be even better"!
Paul & me both went down in a heap with that sentiment!

Lastly and most appropriately I have to quote Byron Rupp.
"You're tougher than a $2 steak...work hard and you'll be back in the saddle before you know it"!

Amen

Friday, January 30, 2009

From Jen a Hong Kong treasure.........



OK.....so now I just have to figure out how to put it together......lol.
Thanks Jen for the good laugh!!

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

No Super Bowl this year....


PAUL has covered every Super Bowl with the exception of the first one...he watched that one from home. The paper that Paul worked for at the time didn't think the Super Bowl was worth covering so they assigned him to a swim meet...he faked illness and charted it from home.
It is a very sad week for us....we normally head out the week before...arriving before the teams.
So instead of covering Picture Day with the teams, Paul is learning how to blow.

Paul is on the selection committee for the Hall of Fame.
I predict that because my Paul won't be attending the meeting Paul Tagliabue will be inducted into the Hall of Fame.
You heard it here first!!

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Kessler Rehabilation Institute




Last weekend Heather, Steve & Dean came from Florida to see Paul.
It was great watching Paul with Dean...and Dean's reaction to Paul.
Laughter is good!

It's been a wild week....trying to deal with the insurance company...Social Security....Time Warner benefits....arranging for chair lifts etc. I found out we need to buy 4 chair lifts...over $17,000....and they aren't covered by insurance!!
Holy %^#@
Give me strength!!

Paul is really working hard...progress is mostly evident physically, walking & use of his arm.
He is working with a new speech therapist...Beth....she is truly remarkable. I think she is breaking through, figuring out ways to help Paul make progress.
Fingers crossed that United Healthcare will give him more time....I am fightling like hell!!

lol...notice who looks the most dazed and confused?
I have the 'deer in the headlights' look!!

Monday, January 19, 2009

Murano details...November moments

Friday, January 16, 2009

Torcello pomegranates


When Barbara and I went to Torcello for lunch at Locanda Cipriani's our waiter presented us with the pomegranates that we had been admiring....thorns and all.

I've always thought that pomegranates are the sexiest of fruits...

Sunday, January 11, 2009

An 'Oh God' moment


During a scrubdown of my shower, two tiles and the soapdish fell off the wall. I grabbed the closest plastic bag and taped it to the remaining tiles. When I walked by later I realized I had used a Selfridges bag.
Hey, I'm lucky...at least I've been to Selfridges!

ps remind me of this when I'm wrestling with Paul and his wheelchair next week......

pss...dig those 50's tiles?

Monday, January 5, 2009

My guy.....

Yesterday at Kessler (rehab)....I ran out to get an extra plate
and when I returned I found this rose at my place.
I looked at Paul and asked 'did you put that here'?
He shrugged as if to say he didn't know HOW it got
there...I asked again....realizing that he had
taken it from the little arrangement at the center of the table.
I burst into tears....he is still thinking of me and trying to do nice
things for me.
Hell, he can only reach so far....he doesn't have access to anything.
And there was the rose!!

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Happy New Year!


Here is a teaser of images to come.....AN AMAZING VENETIAN BOAT RIDE!!